Sunday, July 22, 2007

Intrusion of Privacy

How would you feel if someone you hold dear goes thru your personal stuff... a diary... a planner... your cellphone... your message archive! ....and take this! his reason, kasi i wasnt being honest with him daw! what do you guys think? is that reason enough to intrude into someone elses affairs?

and heres the deal... 50% of what he actually read and what he told me... is wrong! of course... everything is open for interpretation... hay... woe is me... and if i did lie to him... i still dont think its justified... what do you think? better yet tell me what to do... because right now i just want to kick his ass! i am so pissed its not even funny! and hurting....geez...i really feel bad and sick! =_(

9 comments:

rOckY said...

harsh! that's never an excuse for spying!

give this person a more than generous dose of what's on your mind. you deserve to be angry!

friendships are relationships are built on trust, not suspicion.

MISTERHUBS said...

Can you keep your friendship/relationship with this person despite the apparent lack of trust between you? Answer this honestly and everything will follow.

Wentle said...

=( i really feel bad and sick and still couldnt bear the fact that he was able to do such a thing =(

Reyville said...

INVASION of PRIVACY. U know what? I think they added this as one of DEADLY SINS. I had a similar situation before. I caught my 2 girl cousins inside my room and guess what, they're holding my m2m porn VCDs which I safely hide under my BED. U know what I did? I ended up lecturing them about INVASION of PRIVACY which somehow help because since then, they realized they have no rights whatsoever to touch any of my stuffs. As someone discreet, that really boiled me and I made sure they could never ever dare talk to me the way a family should be. They just discovered something, and what we can do is just to pray they won't divulge any and to make sure that history will not be repeated. Try as much as possible that u act like it won't bear anything at all.

Reyville said...

*I think they should add this... (Sorry for the TYPOs)

Anonymous said...

That's just sick. Really sick! On the otherhand, try to get into the other person's shoes. Maybe you gave him all the reasons to do so.

Wentle said...

...yeah... try to get into my shoes and tell me how i should feel...

theTripper said...

"someone you hold dear"? how dear? technically speaking it is intrusion of privacy. ok, just express you anger, but afterwards ask urself if u can forgive your "dear" for the behavior. if you can't, i guess your "dear" is not really "dear" after all. and you already know what is far more important to you. just do what you "feel" is right.

Jigs said...

I think a good talk between the two of you should preempt any sudden emotional response.

A little explanation would go a long way. Then go from there and talk about privacy and your feelings.

I know I'm in no position to advice you in anything since we don't know each other. I'm just giving my 2 cents. goodluck with whatever you do.